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“If you’re a parent who has ever felt like you were failing because your toddler wouldn’t listen, or like you’ve lost yourself in the process of trying to stay calm through back-to-back meltdowns, this book will feel like a lifeline. Because when you know differently, you show up differently–and then everything changes. As you find yourself more effective in navigating the hard stuff, you’ll have more bandwidth to play, to have fun, and to delight in your child.”

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DID YOU KNOW THAT…

Toddlerhood is a critical (and often misunderstood) developmental period.

How you respond to challenging behavior sets the life-long foundation of their emotional health.

90%

of your child’s brain develops by age five.

56%

of parents believe kids have enough impulse control to not do something forbidden before age 3.

71%

of parents believe kids can share and take turns with other children before age 3.

The reality? These skills don’t start to show up until 3.5 – 4 years old.

The behaviors that unravel our patience and we label as ‘bad’ and ‘mean’ are actually normal toddler behavior.

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Inside, you’ll find a proven, developmentally smart plan for understanding your toddler and your role as a parent, what’s driving their behavior and the recipe for calm, connected, developmentally appropriate discipline.

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Hi, I’m Devon Kuntzman, founder of Transforming Toddlerhood, certified coach, and toddler parent who gets it.

I’m on a mission to flip the script on the “terrible twos,” “threenagers,” “fearsome fours,” and “frightful fives,” and help parents see toddlerhood for what it really is: a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to lay the foundation of social, emotional, and relationship skills.

As the original toddler parenting coach on Instagram and an ICF-certified coach with a degree in psychology and child development, I’ve helped tens of thousands of families worldwide navigate toddlerhood with more calm, confidence, and joy.

I wrote this book because I believe parents deserve support, not guilt, and toddlers deserve to be understood, not just managed.

This book is not about being a “perfect parent,” it’s about providing you the tools, encouragement, and fresh perspective to turn this challenging season into one of the most meaningful and rewarding chapters of your parenting journey.

Let’s transform toddlerhood, together!

This is THE Parenting Manual You Wish Came
With Your Toddler

Packed with tips, scripts, and quick-reference chapters, this book will help you…

  • Understand your child’s world and decode the mystery behind why they never seem to listen!
  • Stop second-guessing your parenting abilities or feeling like their behavior is your fault.
  • Handle challenges with effective, EASY, and developmentally appropriate strategies — without bribes, yelling, or giving in.
  • And if you do yell (because hi, you’re human), you’ll know exactly how to repair and turn power struggles into teachable moments.
  • Let go of the “perfect parent” pressure. Learn how to show up present, curious, and ready to do your best!
  • Enjoy parenting while raising emotionally healthy, independent kids who feel safe, seen, and deeply loved.
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Get Answers Faster Than a Flying LEGO

Having a meltdown over the blue cup? There’s a chapter for that.

Refusing to go to bed? Yep, that too.

This book is designed so you can skip the overwhelm and flip straight to the solution!

Each bite-sized chapter is grouped by emotional, physical, and social development to make it easy to handle those everyday toddler surprises (meltdowns, messes, and mystery moods included).

Inside Transforming Toddlerhood…

You won’t find:

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  • Guilt, shame, or anything requiring you to be a “perfect parent.”
  • Fear-based discipline that tries to scares your child into behaving
  • A generic parenting book that glosses over the toddler years

You will find:

  • A proven, real-talk breakdown of why your toddler acts this way, and what to do about it
  • Bite-sized chapters on the biggest challenges (think tantrums, hitting, tricky transitions)
  • A flexible approach that blends science and real-life parenting wisdom. There’s no “right way” to parent!
  • Deep compassion for your child AND for YOU. We’re all humans doing our best!
  • Support that’s dialed in specifically for these critical early years

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